Sometimes we get a negative vibe from the moment we enter a situation. We don't know why. We can't pinpoint a reason. We don't have any facts. And nothing bad has actually happened. Yet. Still, our "spidey senses" are tingling.
What do we do with those negative vibes? Has our subconscious mind picked up on something our conscious mind hasn't processed yet? Or is our overly-suspicious mind working overtime again? So which one is it?
A reasonable person might approach the situation with a little more caution. Gather the facts, analyze them, and draw a conclusion. If something looks hinky, then remain cautious. But if everything looks OK, stand down from yellow alert.
But what do we actually do?
In my experience, when a woman says "it's woman's intuition," or a guy says it is his "gut feeling," it usually that they've already made up their mind. How can we argue with that?
That's not intuition. We're not using it to help sort out the truth. We don't need any facts because we already "know" the truth. We assume that what we are feeling is the truth.
And then we wonder why we can't be happy.
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